Were you ever told something as a kid and…suddenly…you remember it as an adult? I was recently reminded of a message I heard when I was young. It was reinforced one Sunday morning in church for me a few years ago. This message is only seven words but has the power to change your life. Normally, I don’t like making statements like that. But in this case I’m making an exception. Here are the Seven Magic Words:
“You Have Not Because You Ask Not.”
Doesn’t get much simpler. I am often asked the following:
- Question: How were you able to get education? Answer: I asked, I asked for help
- Question: How were you able to raise capital for your businesses? Answer: I asked.
- Question: How are you able to sell through the mail? Answer: I ask for the sale.
Oversimplification? Perhaps. But I don’t think so. When I first started out in business with vending machines, I would come home after going on sales calls and sulk. I did everything but ask for the sale. Presented the features and benefits. Proved beyond doubt my service was good. Result? No ask, no results. I have trouble getting ahead with education, until I asked for help. Now I support people who dare to ask for help, can ask for help and people like I offer advice. This is my message you need to ask, asking for help is part of your success!